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To put it bluntly, yes, it can be. You're being pushed to your limits, physically and mentally, and that can be frightening. BUT safety is paramount at CHALLENGE, and you can trust that we wouldn't ask you to do something that you are not capable of doing. All of the staffers have been through CHALLENGE before, and they want to pass on the legacy of growing boys into strong Christian men. A few notes to help ease your mom's fears (or yours):

• Recruits are issued meals 3x/day and eat the same food as the staff (the staff have latitude to supplement with some snacks, which recruits don't, but we are *not* starving you or feeding you something we don't eat ourselves).
• Recruits are scheduled to sleep a minimum of 5-6 hours each night throughout the week.
• There *is* yelling, but not to the degree or cutting tenor of what the military does. It would not be a military style bootcamp without rigorous discipline, but it is not personal, it is not profane, and it is always for the education and edification of the recruits.
• There are planned low-intensity periods cycled in each day to give a mental break and allow staff and dads to check on recruits and ensure they aren't dangerously overwhelmed.

Even with all proper precautions taken, an adventure camp like this will always have some risk. Appropriately used, danger can be a tool that speaks to a young man. All that said, our goal is for your experience to be intense but safe. We want it to be an environment where you are pushed to grow in your walk with the Lord and realize that you can do and be better than you thought possible.

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I met Micah’s family around the time that the Ferrill boys first started attending CHALLENGE. I thought it was really weird that they wanted to go to a camp that intentionally made things difficult. Life is hard enough as it is, right? But as I got to know the Ferrills and learned more about CHALLENGE, I realized how beneficial it was for them as men and, even more importantly, as Christians. 

If a young man has already faced many hardships in his life, maybe he doesn’t need CHALLENGE. But most people in our society have so many things so easily that they don’t realize their own strength, and so too easily give up when something comes across their path that takes a lot of effort. CHALLENGE pushes a young man beyond what he thinks he’s capable of and shows him the tools he needs to overcome… tools like a strong relationship with Jesus Christ, the truths of Scripture, and teamwork/community.

One of my brothers-in-law went to CHALLENGE thinking he could do it on his own. He was a young teenager. He had grown up in a Christian home. But he had not submitted himself to God. He realized that “just like I wasn't able to go through these different challenges without my squad, I was also fully incapable of saving myself from my sin. As the worship leader explained the words of the songs we were singing, I just felt this overwhelming emptiness over my inability… That night I prayed to God… I confessed my sins and my need for a Savior… I knew then that I actually had something I could be confident in and Someone I could depend on.” (Read Josiah’s full testimonial here.)

My now husband, Micah, was technically already an adult when he went to CHALLENGE that year. He was a committed Christian, a self-taught software developer, and had spent time as a ministry intern. Looking at him, you would think he had things pretty put together. Yet thinking back, he still calls CHALLENGE the single most pivotal and influential event in his life, aside from actually giving his life to Jesus as a young boy. The purpose, peace, humility, and confidence he gained from the experiences and instructions that week at camp have marked his life since then. (Read about Micah's experience here.)

Here at The Timothy Group, we’re not doing this because we think it’s fun or we like ‘torturing’ people or we make money from it. It’s hard work, it’s emotionally draining, and we volunteer all of our time. We do it because we think it’s important. We see the way our culture shames and suppresses men, and we want to encourage them in the truth, we want to teach them to stand firm, and we want to see them succeed in their pursuit of strong Christian manhood.

CHALLENGE is not an easy event to run, and it won’t be easy for young men to complete, but it’s worth the trouble.

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In the first chapter of the book of Joshua, Joshua is taking on the reigns of the leadership of Israel after the death of Moses. It is a big responsibility, full of dangers from their physical enemies, as well as the weight of the spiritual guidance of the people. Multiple times in that chapter God tells Joshua, "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous!"

Jesus said in John 16:33, “In the world you have tribulation, but take courage.” Ephesians 6 tells us to "be strong." But where does this strength and courage come from?

The second part of the charge to Joshua was, "Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go" (Josh. 1:9) The end of John 16:33 says, "I have overcome the world." Ephesians 6 tells us that we are strong "in the strength of His might" and that the armor of God (truth, righteousness, faith, the word of God, etc.) will help us to resist evil.

So courage comes from knowing the truth and relying on God. John Flavel in his excellent work on Preparations for Suffering lists ten more ways we can cultivate this courage.  Here is a short summary:

1. “Get a weaned heart from all earthly enjoyments.”  Not to say that we can’t enjoy the gifts of this life, but, as it was said of Luther, “Money could not tempt him.” So we ought not allow anything but Christ to have a hold on us.
2. “Suffer not guilt to lie upon your conscience.” Flavel gave the example of Joseph’s brothers who were always looking over their shoulders and worried about keeping away the consequences of selling their brother into slavery.
3. “Be well satisfied you are in the way and posture God expects to find you in.”  If you aren’t sure you’re doing your duty, how will you have the courage to proceed when you come up against an obstacle?
4. “Get right notions and apprehensions of your enemies.”  Remember that their power is limited by God’s boundaries and their carnal weapons cannot touch your soul.
5. “Labour to engage the presence of God with you in all places and conditions.” Joshua 1:9, “Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord you God is with you wherever you go.”
6. “Get a high estimation of Jesus Christ.” “They that value him the highest will adventure for him farthest.”
7. “Beware you be not cheated with maxims of carnal policy, mistaken for Christian prudence.”  In other words, don’t let your zeal for Christ be swallowed up by being overly careful. 
8. Look upon troubles with faith.  They wouldn’t appear like such formidable things if we but would see the supports and comforts often met with by souls facing difficulty.
9. Remember that there is a reward for sufferings.  Think on the realities of heaven as certain, glorious, and near at hand, and your current problems will pale in comparison.
10. “Propound to yourselves the best examples.”  Read biographies and fellowship with Christians who have gone before you and been victorious.

Biblical courage is not based on our possessions, merit, or will-power.  It is not in opposition to humility or caution, but is in opposition to apathy and despair.  It’s based on truth, being close to God, and hope for the future. As your prepare your sons or yourself for manhood, remember the true basis for strength and courage is found in Christ, and build on that foundation.

This is a hard question. One that plagues the heart of man. "Do I really believe all this stuff about Jesus?" "Am I just part of some cult?" Philosophers will wax eloquent about "cultural christianity" or "judeo-christian values" while avoiding the most basic and cutting question: "Do I believe?" What does that even mean?

By Grace are you Saved

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, - Ephesians 2:8

Scripture tells us that our eternal state isn't based on our works, but the inverse: we love God and do good works after and because he has saved us. Justification is based solely on Christ's death on the cross, not through anything we can do. At the same time the Christian does not have the ability to say "I'm saved, so I can do what I want" (Rom. 6:15). With that context we can then consider how James 2:20 tells us that "faith apart from works is useless"

Your Fruits

Even a child makes himself known by his acts, by whether his conduct is pure and upright. - Proverbs 20:11 Beware of false prophets... You will recognize them by their fruits. - Matthew 7:15-16

What visible evidences should we expect of your faith?

• Discipline your whole body and mind to his service (Deut. 6:5)
• Be faithful daily and ready to do hard things ("take up your cross" - Luke 9:23)
• Build wealth that you may bless others (Eph. 4:28)
• Take care of your people (I Tim. 5:8)
• Be faithful to the body of believers (Heb. 10:24-25)

When Trials Come

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. - James 1:2-4

Scripture tells us not that trials might come, but that they will come. In fact, many passages tell us that trials and hard times are necessary for our good (1 Peter 1:6-7). Trials could look like the sudden death of a family member or close friend. Trials could look like the loss of a job, or a relationship turned abusive. Trials could look like having to do what we don't want to in order to faithfully follow Christ. True faith gives us perseverance, hope, and a reliance on God's grace to carry us through.

At CHALLENGE this past year one of my favorite moments was during a smoke session, where the recruits were struggling to keep up with the exercise and hold good form. Between his own groans and straining, one 13 year old recruit turned his head to another who was struggling harder and told him "pray to Jesus and ask him for strength". This is true religion realized: dependence on Christ, producing a fully committed faithfulness.

The Measure of Desire

As a deer pants for flowing streams, so pants my soul for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. - Psalm 42:2-3

What do you want most? That is perhaps the root question. Are your affections set on the eternal, or the temporary? What feels good in the moment, or how to live out your part in the great cosmic dance? Genuine faith involves a deep-seated desire for God and His kingdom. From that affection, all of our life is tempered:

• The food you eat
• Your daily habits
• What you do for rest (and why)
• How you view and execute work
• The words you choose to use and how you say them

For the believer, there is no separation between "spiritual" and "earthly" practices. Our spiritual disciplines (church attendance, prayer, bible study, etc.) and our daily walk (work, rest, relationships, emotions) are all alike dedicated to the King. (Matthew 6:33)

Conclusion

Is your religion real when it costs you nothing and carries no risk? Is your religion real when you fatten upon it? - Frank Herbert ...I will not offer burnt offerings to the Lord my God that cost me nothing. - 2 Samuel 24:24

So then how can we be saved, and how should we live thereafter?

• "...Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved..." - Acts 16:31
• "what does the Lord your God require of you, but to fear the Lord your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul, and to keep the commandments and statutes of the Lord" - Deut. 10:12-13

Just as we train on a map and compass to find our path, the Holy Spirit by the word gives us clear direction on how we are to focus our lives if we would but study it out. If your faith doesn't lead you into challenges, you should consider if you are walking in truth. If your faith doesn't give you the means and the hope and the strength to persevere through them, then you should consider upon what you have actually put your hope.

If you want to learn more about persevering and maturing in the Christian faith, sign up for our mailing list and check out our CHALLENGE training event for young men.

When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. - I Cor. 13:11

Growing up happens in stages. But there are some common milestones along the way. Puberty, first job, moving out, starting a family. Sometimes, when we're between milestones the road seems less clear. Settle into a routine, boredom settles in and we reach for a little fun. Every boy asks "when do I grow up"? Well that's the cool thing... (stay tuned)

When do I grow up?

Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity. - I Timothy 4:12

Paul writes to Timothy, instructing him in how to interact with people of different maturity levels around him. This is a necessary skill for all of us. It's said that respect is earned, not given and there's some truth to that. "Let no man despise" is an exhortation to set an example and to demonstrate that competence and honesty which characterizes a well-rounded adult.

We never really "arrive" at that level of maturity that we're always looking forward to. The truth is, everyone's "faking it" to one extent or another. That's part of the adventure. You have to just do the thing, and learn as you go. So in that sense, we never "grow up" but are always reaching for that next level of growth.

Why do we play games?

There's a pietistic attitude towards amusements that it's all a waste of time. Video games, books, movies, music. The reality is that art, aesthetics, and culture are all part of the world we live in and are not divorced from the influence of our worldview. As a matter of fact, western culture and the world as a whole owe much of its innovation to principles built from the principles of Christianity.

Games and entertainment applied well are merely another training ground for adulthood. Teamwork, perseverance, application of various skills are all things that may start in a playground, but are necessary to a functioning society. Be intentional with your choice of activities and then give it your full effort while you can.

Embrace the Boredom: T-Shaped Skills

Even with all our modern opportunity for knowledge and practice, we find ourselves bored at times. The default behavior is to reach for the next dopamine source like a monkey. Like fasting though, the deprivation can be instructive if we allow ourselves to be bored. Artificial scarcity can make opportunity for further learning and growth.

This can sometimes take the shape of working on a task or project outside our primary interest. Woodworking or plumbing for someone more intellectually minded, or balancing books for someone used to working with their hands. Having even a modicum of awareness and proficiency in multiple areas will both make the individual more flexible, but also enhance their particular specialty. Our church like many others needed streaming and recording capability when the lockdowns came, and because I had invested time learning such technology for video game tournaments I was able to help develop that ministry opportunity.

Understand your moods and motivations with the help of friends and mentors, and then leverage them to increase your effectiveness.

Liberty and Purpose

Seek freedom and become captive of your desires. Seek discipline and find your liberty. - Frank Herbert

In the western world we throw around terms like "liberty" and "freedom", but these words don't mean "license to do whatever we want". In the "old world" it wasn't uncommon for people to be persecuted for following their convictions. The new world was hoped to give an opportunity of liberty such that people could live as they should. There is no meaning in raw hedonistic pursuits. Chasing personal pleasure will never satisfy or grant purpose and meaning. Every man and woman needs to be part of something bigger than themselves, and serve a higher purpose.

"He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil." - 1 John 3:8

"But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:" - John 1:12

Which way, oh man?

Learn more about how young men can develop character and leadership through programs like CHALLENGE.